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How
To Assess Super
Attainers
Main Ingredients for Making SuperAttainers
1. Early Starters
Super Attainers often start doing amazing things early in their life. This gives them a head-start in learning all of the difficult lessons required to achieve greatness. Wolfgang Mozart, Warren Buffet and Bill Gates are a few of many examples. Sometimes they are pushed at a young age into a leadership position with fathers (examples are Alexander the Great, Ghengis Khan and Julius Caesar).
2. Nonconformists
It is safe to say that Super Attainers are not crowd followers. The making of momentous discoveries or promoting new ideas requires a personality that shows disdain for established authority and traditional opinions. Many great leaders led people who are culturally different from them in some important way. A few examples include: Adolf Hitler (Austrian Leading Germans), Joseph Stalin (Georgian leading Russians), Napoleon (Corsican Leading French).
3. Praise Be To Me
It is uncommon for Super Attainers to be humble about their abilities. They are supremely confident in themselves. They are often described as arrogant by others and are prone to disparage competitors. In advanced societies, many Super Attainers have come to recognize that being known as arrogant does not help their purpose and they do a good job of appearing modest. However, a bit of digging into their personality should uncover a deep feeling of self-significance.
4. Mentored & Motivated
Parents and other committed mentors often play a strong role in convincing Super Attainers in their childhood that they are extraordinary and developing their abilities. Some work with other great
Attainers and later carry on their work. They are often sent to the best schools and get the best tutors for extra training. Mothers can play a strong role if they are supremely confident in their son's natural abilities and pass on this belief in a manner that it is internalized. Mussolini`s mother is quoted as saying, `If he becomes a soldier, he will be a general. If he becomes a monk, he will be a pope`. Pope John Paul II`s mother told everyone who would listen that her new baby would `be a great man one day.` Extreme examples are 2 of history's greatest leaders, Alexander the Great and Jesus of Nazareth. In both instances, highly religious mothers were convinced their children were sons of supernatural beings.
5. Alone to the Top
Super Attainers are often described by others as dreamers, outsiders, cold-hearted and similar labels often given to loners. They are comfortable spending time in the company of themselves to ponder, study and develop. Many develop a love of solitary activities such as book-reading early in their life. They are not usually enthusiastic participants in team activities except when they are leader of the group, otherwise preferring individual activities. Adolf Hitler, Albert Einstein, Joseph Stalin and Erwin Rommel are a few examples of these people
6. Hard-Knocks Schooled
Super Attainers have often experienced traumatic times when their career or even their lives were in great peril. Childhood illnesses are one way that Super Attainers gain this feeling of vulnerability and resolve to overcome it. It is during these times that they gain an anxious feeling about their time in the world and comes to desperate realization that they must accomplish all they can when they have the chance because it can all come crashing down in the future.
7. Discontentment
Superior Attainers have an abnormally strong need for continuous accomplishment. Success does not bring them a sense of peace. They always see some other person who has more than then they do and scheme to overtake them. Super Attainers are impatient, dissatisfied and edgy when not engaged in activities that lead to the fulfillment of their goals. They seem psychologically unstable in this regard compared with others.
Two Types of SuperAttainers
I. Aristocratic SuperAttainers
Pampered and pompous, these people excelled despite having been given it all. They attended the best schools and hobnobbed with the best minds. Because they are so deeply bonded to a successful elite, they are able to keep grounded when great success disrupts people sense of normality. They are less likely to lead themselves and their followers down the paths of mutual destruction. On the down-side, they are conservative and elitist. Real change seldom happens with these people in charge.
Examples include: Winston Churchill, Peter the Great, Frederick the Great and Louis XIV.
II. Come-From-
Nothing
SuperAttainers
Rags to riches, these people pull themselves up through tremendous obstacles. Luck plays a role but most of their success is due to relentless force of character. Since they come from outside the establishment, they can be great agents of change. Unfortunately, they are prone to crash and burning when they inevitably overstretch themselves and their supporters. These people need to develop devoted relationships among powerful people who can keep them grounded.
Examples include: Joseph Stalin, Adolf Hitler, Benito Mussolini and Ferdinand Marcos.
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SuperAttainer:
Robert E. Lee

Great
American Military Leader:
Robert
E. Lee
Main
Life Accomplishments:
He
was a career United States Army officer, an engineer, and among the most
celebrated generals in American history.
After the Civil War, Robert E. Lee became president of Washington College
in Virginia, a post which he held until his death. After his death the
school was renamed as Washington and Lee
Basics:
Born:
19-Jan-1807 Stratford, VA
Died: 12-Oct-1870 Lexington, VA
Nationality: American
Religion: Anglican/Episcopalian
Fields: Politics, Military
Main Accomplishments: Lee was the Confederacy's most famous
general in the American Civil War. He is best known for his victories in
the Battle of second Manassas (second Bull Run), and the Battle of
Chancellorsville.
Chronology
of Life Events:
January
19,1807
Robert
E. Lee was born at Stratford, Westmoreland County, Virginia: Parents,
Henry Lee ("Light-horse Harry" Lee) of Leesylvania, and Ann Hill
Carter of Shirley.
1811
Removed to Alexandria with his family.
1812
His father received injuries in Baltimore riot from which he never
recovered and which necessitated his leaving Alexandria for a warmer
climate. He died six years later, at Cumberland Island, Georgia, March 25,
1818. Robert was reared by his mother. He spent his holidays and vacations
at Stratford and Shirley.
1818
His father died while Lee was in the midst of his schooling.
1825
Entered West Point.
1829
Graduated from West Point second in his class. His mother died at
Ravensworth, Virginia. He was assigned to duty at Hampton Roads, Virginia.
1831
June 30. Married Mary Randolph Custis of Arlington.
1834-37
Served as Assistant to Chief Engineer of the Army.
1837
Took charge of improvement of Mississippi at St. Louis.
1838
Made Captain of Engineers.
1841
In charge of defense at Fort Hamilton, New York.
1844
Appointed Visitor to West Point.
1846-47
Rendered distinguished services in Mexican War.
1848 January to June
Stationed
in Mexico.
1849-52
At work on the defenses of Baltimore.
1852-55
Superintendent of West Point Academy.
1855 April
Appointed
Lieutenant Colonel of the Second Cavalry.
1855-59
Saw service against Indians in Texas.
1856-59 October
Suppressed
the John Brown insurrection.
1860 February
Took
charge of Department of Texas where he stayed one year.
1861
March
1
Returned
to Arlington to his family.
March
16
Appointed
Colonel of First Cavalry.
April
16
Offered
command of United States Armies.
April
20
Resigned
commission in army.
April
23
Accepted
command of Virginia forces.
May
- July
Organized
troops and advised President Davis in Richmond.
August
- October
Was
in charge of abortive campaign in Western Virginia.
November. Had charge of coast defense in South Carolina and Georgia.
1862
March
Became
military advisor to President Davis.
June
1
Assumed
command of Army of Northern Virginia.
June
26 - July 2
Commanded
Confederates in Seven Days' fighting around Richmond.
August
30
Defeated
Pope at second Manassas.
September
5
Crossed
the Potomac. Began advance into Maryland.
September
12
Drew
Battle of Antietam or Sharpsburg. Abandoned campaign of invastion.
December
13
Won
a victory over Burnside at Fredericksburg.
December
In
winter quarters until March.
1863
May
2 - 3
Won
a victory over Hooker at Chacellorsville.
May
10
His
great liutenant, "Stonewall" Jackson, died.
June
Began
movements leading up to second invasion of the North.
July
1 -3
Defeated
at Gettysburg.
July
4 - 13
Made
a masterly retreat and recrossed the Potomac.
October
- November
Conducted
the ineffective campaign of Mine Run.
December
Lay
in winter quarters on the Rapidan until April.
1864
May
5 - 6
Fought
the Battle of the Wilderness against Grant.
May
8 - 18
Conducted
fighting about Spotsylvania Courthouse.
May
21 - June 1
Conducted
operations on interior lines.
June
2 - 3
Fought
a fierce battle at Cold Harbor.
June
18
Joined
Beauregard at Petersburg. Siege of Petersburg began.
July
30
Fought
the Battle of the Crater.
1865
February
9
Issued
his first general order as Commander-in-Chief.
April
2
Retreated
from Petersburg. End of the siege.
April
3
Richmond
fell.
April
9
Surrendered
to Grant at Appomattox Courthouse.\
April
10
Issued
his Farewell Address to the Army of Northern Virginia.
June
13
Applied
for Pardon.
August
4
Elected
President of Washington College, Lexington, Virginia (now
Washington
and Lee University.)
1867
February
4
Declined
to be a candidate for the governorship of Virginia.
1870
March
- April. Visited Georgia in seach of health.
October
12
Robert
E. Lee died at Lexington.
Early
Life:
Robert
E. Lee was born at Stratford Hall Plantation in Westmoreland County,
Virginia, the fifth child of Revolutionary War hero Henry Lee ("Light
Horse Harry") and Anne Hill (née Carter) Lee. Lee's parents were
members of the Virginia gentry class and true tuckahoes. Lee's paternal
ancestors were among the earliest settlers in Virginia. His mother grew up
at Shirley Plantation, one of the most elegant homes in Virginia. His
maternal great-great-grandfather, Robert "King" Carter, was the
wealthiest man in the colonies when he died in 1732. "Light Horse
Harry Lee" met severe financial reverses from failed investments.
Historian Gary W. Gallagher wrote, "Harry Lee had not been able to
exercise self-control or take care of his family, and so he abandoned
them." That was a stark lesson for young Robert E. Lee."
However, in Lee of Virginia it is noted that Harry Lee "was very
seriously injured by a mob in Baltimore while attempting to defend the
house of a friend. Later he made a voyage to the West Indies seeking
restoration for his shattered health. On his way home ... he died..."
Lee of Virginia also notes "...in the West Indies, Henry Lee wrote a
series of letters to his son, Carter..."During his young life,. later
described by Robert E. Lee as "'Those letters of love and
wisdom.'"
Lee's father died when Lee was eleven years old, leaving the family deeply
in debt. When Lee was three years old, his older half-brother, the heir to
the Stratford Hall Plantation, having reached his majority, established
Stratford as his home. The rest of the family moved to Alexandria,
Virginia, where Lee grew up in a series of relatives' houses. Lee attended
Alexandria Academy, where he obtained a classical education along the
lines of quadrivium. Lee was considered a top student and excelled at
mathematics. His mother, a devout Christian, oversaw his religious
instruction at Christ Episcopal Church in Alexandria.
He entered the United States Military Academy in 1825 and became the first
cadet to achieve the rank of sergeant at the end of his first year. When
he graduated in 1829 he was at the head of his class in artillery and
tactics, and shared the distinction with five other cadets of having
received no demerits during the four-year course of instruction. Overall,
he ranked second in his class of 46. He was commissioned as a brevet
second lieutenant in the Corps of Engineers.
Wife
Background:
Mary
Anna Randolph Custis Lee (October 1, 1807 – November 5, 1873) was the
wife of Confederate General Robert E. Lee.
Mary was the only surviving child of George Washington Parke Custis,
George Washington's stepgrandson, and Mary Lee Fitzhugh Custis, daughter
of William Fitzhugh and Ann Randolph. Her godmother, Mary Randolph, wrote
an early housekeeping and cookbook. Mary's birth year is usually given as
1808, but it appears in the Custis family Bible and in records kept by her
mother as 1807, and is also referred to in a letter her mother wrote in
the autumn of 1807. Mary was well educated, having learned both Latin and
Greek. She enjoyed discussing politics with her father, and later with her
husband. She kept current with the new literature and, after her father's
death, edited and published his writings as "Recollections and
Private Memoirs of Washington, by his Adopted Son George Washington Parke
Custis, with a Memoir of this Author by his Daughter" in 1859.
Mary was diminutive and vivacious and had known Robert E. Lee from
childhood. Among her other suitors was Sam Houston. The pair were married
at her parents' home, Arlington House, on June 30, 1831 and had three sons
and four daughters: George Washington Custis "Custis", William
H. Fitzhugh "Rooney", Robert Edward Jr., Mary, Eleanor Agnes
(called Agnes), Anne, and Mildred.
Mary inherited Arlington House from her father after he died in 1857. The
estate had long been the couple's home whenever they were in the area
during her husband's military career. Mary was a gracious hostess and
enjoyed frequent visitors. She was a painter, like her father, and painted
many landscapes, some of which are still on view at the house. She loved
roses and grew 11 varieties. She was deeply religious and attended
Episcopal services when there was one near the army post. In Arlington,
Virginia, the Lees attended the Christ Episcopal Church in Alexandria, the
church she and Robert had attended in childhood.
Mary taught her female slaves to read and write and was an advocate of
eventual emancipation. She suffered from rheumatoid arthritis, and this
became increasingly debilitating with advancing age. By 1861, she was
using a wheelchair.
With the advent of the American Civil War, Lee and their sons were called
to service in Virginia while Mary delayed evacuating Arlington House until
May 15, 1861. Early that month, Lee wrote to Mary Anna saying:
"War is inevitable, and there is no telling when it will burst around
you . . . You have to move and make arrangements to go to some point of
safety which you must select. The Mount Vernon plate and pictures ought to
be secured. Keep quiet while you remain, and in your preparations . . .
May God keep and preserve you and have mercy on all our people."
Mary and her daughters initially moved between the several family
plantations. In May 1862, when she was caught at her son Rooney's White
House Plantation in New Kent County behind the Federal lines, as Union
forces moved up the York River and the Pamunkey River toward Richmond. In
a gentlemanly gesture by Union commander George B. McClellan, she was
allowed to pass through the lines in order to take up residence in
Richmond --- McClellan's campaign goal, ironically.
Mary and her daughters finally settled at 707 East Franklin Street in
Richmond, Virginia for the bulk of the War. After the War, after they
lived in Powhatan county for a short time, she accompanied her husband to
Lexington, Virginia, where he became president of the Washington College,
later renamed Washington and Lee University. She was able to visit her
beloved Arlington House once more before her death, but she was unable to
leave the carriage. She hardly recognized it except for a few old oaks and
some of the trees she and Robert had planted. Mary died at the age of 66
and is buried next to her husband in the Lee family crypt at Lee Chapel on
the campus of Washington and Lee.
Father
Background:
Henry
Lee III, called "Light Horse Harry" , (January 29, 1756–March
25, 1818) was a cavalry officer in the Continental Army during the
American Revolution. He was the Governor of Virginia and a U.S.
Congressman, as well as the father of American Civil War general Robert E.
Lee.
Lee was born near Dumfries, Virginia, the son of Maj. Gen. Henry Lee II
(1730–1787) of "Leesylvania" and Lucy Grymes (1734–1792) the
"Lowland Beauty". His father was first cousin once removed to
Richard Henry Lee, sixth President of the Continental Congress. His mother
was an aunt of the wife of Virginia Governor Thomas Nelson Jr. His
great-grandmother Mary Bland was a great-aunt of President Thomas
Jefferson and he descended once from King John of England, twice from King
Edward I of England, once from King Jean de Brienne of Jerusalem, twice
from King Edward III of England and once from King Pedro I of Castile.
With a view to a legal career, he graduated (1773) from The College of New
Jersey (now Princeton University), but, soon afterwards, on the outbreak
of the Revolutionary War, he became a captain in the revolutionary forces.
In
1776, he was promoted to captain of a Virginia dragoon detachment, which
was attached to the 1st Continental Light Dragoons; and, in 1778, he was
promoted to major and given the command of a small irregular corps, with
which he won a great reputation as a leader of light troops.
His services on the outpost line of the army earned for him the sobriquet
of "Light Horse Harry". His greatest exploit was the brilliant
surprise at the Battle of Paulus Hook in New Jersey, on August 19, 1779;
for this feat he received a gold medal, a reward given to no other officer
below a general's rank in the entire war. (See also Discovery of medal
that Congress granted to Lee). The medal is on view with other pieces from
Princeton University’s Numismatic Collection, including two pewter
continental "dollars", large cents from 1793 and 1794, a silver
dollar of 1794, the Thomas Jefferson inaugural medal of 1801 and an Indian
Peace Medal of James Madison (Princeton class of 1771). Also included are
a signed letter of Lee to the New Jersey quartermaster from 1780 and a
signed letter of the same year from George Washington to Lee approving
Lee’s plan to capture Benedict Arnold.
He was promoted to lieutenant colonel with a picked corps of dragoons
(Lee's Legion) to the southern theater of war. Here he rendered invaluable
services in victory and defeat, notably at Guilford Court House, Camden
and Eutaw Springs. He was present at Cornwallis's surrender at Yorktown,
and afterwards left the army owing to ill health.
During the infamous Whiskey Rebellion, Lee commanded the 13,000 militiamen
sent to quash the rebels. However, this command existed more on paper than
in actuality, as President George Washington and Alexander Hamilton,
military men both, accompanied him.
Mother
Background:
Robert
E. Lee's mother, Ann Hill Carter Lee, was the great-granddaughter of
Robert Carter (1663-1732), one of America's earliest men of wealth.
Carter's wealth came from service as land agent for the English Proprieter,
Lord Fairfax. As such, he collected rents on the millions of acres owned
by Fairfax in Virginia. His position gained for him an estate of some
three hundred thousand acres and made him so powerful that he became known
as "King" Carter. His wealth, filtered through several
generations, was the ultimate source of Ann's inheritance.
Ann's father was Charles Carter, one of Virginia's wealthiest planters.
His home called Shirley Plantation was located on the south side of the
James River near Richmond, VA. Ann came from a distinguished family. It is
probable that she was known personally to all seven Virginian signers of
the Declaration of Independence, to all of whom, save one, she was related
by ties of consanguinity or marriage.
Comparatively little is known of Ann personally. It is believed that the
likeness shown above is hers because the brooch in the picture, bearing a
likeness of George Washington, is similar to one known to have been hers.
Ann was born in 1773, though exactly where is not certain. Ann was the
daughter of Anne Butler Moore, Charles Carter's second wife. She was the
tenth of twenty-three children born to Charles' two wives. So, though of a
wealthy family, she could not see herself as particularly unique. Charles,
nonetheless, displayed a lively interest in the welfare of each of his
children. It may be safely inferred that she posessed a strong sense of
family. Similarly, she was a religious person with a strong belief in the
existence of a just and benevolent God.
Ann was not physically strong. She is said to have suffered from
narcolepsy, a disease which made her, along with many persons of her time,
even those not so afflicted, fearful of being buried alive. There is even
a legend that she was, indeed, thought dead and nearly so buried. As early
as 1806 she writes that she was becoming an invalid. During her stay at
the Oronoco street home, she needed help negotiating the stairs. Ann
apparently suffered from tuberculosis for an indeterminant time preceding
her death.

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